On June 14, 2010 Ms. Yvonne Moten talked about Posistive Powerwhich was about how to handle conflict. Ms Yvonne talked about Non Assertive behavior which consists of , other deciding for you, don’t express fellings, ideas, wants and puts self down. She also spoke on having aggressive behavior which includes: is inappropriately honest, puts others down, ignores rights of others, dominates, chooses for others, attacks and blames, overracts to situtations, uses loaded and superior words, is sarcastic and loud, makes rigid demands and points the finger. Assertive Behavior includes: is appropriately honest, express wants and feelings directly, is empathetic, chooses for herself, is spontaneous, exercises her personal rights and respects rights of others, makes direct eye, has firm and warm voice, uses I statement takes responsibility for self.
Feelings of others when person engages in this behavior
- NON ASSERTIVE : Guilty, disrespectful, irritated, frustrated, superior
- AGGRESSIVE: Hurt, humiliated, defensive, vengeful, angry
- ASSERTIVE: Respectful and respected.
Just keep in mid the things you can control don’t let the aggressive side come out. Don’t play into the odds of aggressive people that expect you to fail.
